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VOLUME 7, NO.7 NJ ADD/AD/HD ADULT NEWSLETTER ADD ADULT SELF HELP SUPPORT GROUP FOR ADD/ADHD ADULTS AND THEIR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS MEETING: The next meeting of
the ADD adult self help support group will be on Gaget: “Now you can find it.” ADDers frequently complain of being unable to locate their keys, PALM Organizer, brief case, and sometimes their spouses. If you can find this wireless electronic locator, you’ll be able to find your keys, cordless phone, remote control, and any other important part of your life. You just press a button and a tiny disc the size of a quarter that you have attached to your important objects will beep. The cost is $49.95 from (1-800-344-4444). If you suffer from chronically losing an important part of your life, you may find this helpful. Trouble Communicating With Your Spouse or Child? Try using email. I have found that spouses are usually better communicators via email than they are in person. The email method is an equalizer. Both parties have equal power to terminate the communication without consequences at the moment. Both parties have to think before sending communication, they can have time to reflect upon what was said, and they can review a conversation rather than fight about “what you said was…” You can choose the proper time to relate. Most teenagers love this method of communicating with their parents. Try it!! Brain Changes to Research: In a recent article by T.L. Richards etal. Driving anger and other driving-related behaviors in high and low ADHD symptom college students, J.Attention Disorders, 2002, 6(1), 25-38, it was found that students who reported high ADHD symptoms also experienced more driving anger, more driving aggression, more crash-related outcomes, more risky behaviors and problems with control of anger and emotions. The driving outcomes were not thought to be due to differences in knowledge about driving skills. Comments: If one can survive the early driving years, there is a much better chance of becoming a safe ADD driver. Unfortunately the number one cause of death in newly licensed drivers is death by auto accident. As the parent of an ADD child you can model appropriate anger and behavioral control while driving. Subscribe to this ADD Newsletter free at: www.DrLoPresti.com Peace!!! Bob
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